Gothic chic. Formal. Black only. Think elegant funeral, not Halloween costume. Velvet, lace, leather accents, dark florals—all welcome. If you show up in color, you will be judged.

Only if they’re listed on your invitation. We’ve planned this dark affair with precision, and our venue has limited space for extra souls.

We love your little ones, but this is an adults-only ceremony.

Yes. She will be wearing a moody floral collar and taking her duties very seriously. Please do not feed her anything without asking either the bride or groom.

There will be *three* open bars.

Likely cool and moody—perfect for gothic vibes. While the reception will have both indoor and outdoor access, the ceremony is outdoor. Bring a black shawl or jacket if you run cold.

During the ceremony, please keep your phones away. Our photographer will capture the magic. During the reception? Go wild. Tag us in your darkest, most dramatic shots.

You will not be stuck with a set meal, as there will be a variety of food stations to accommodate most diets. For specific food allergy info, please ask a hotel staff member at the reception.